Is it a sex blog? A mommy blog? A bitch & moan blog? Um, . . . yeah. This is my place to be totally honest. In my real life, I feel like I'm always lying to somebody about something. Here, I am totally honest. Brutally so. However, no matter what bad things I say about my kids, I adore them and would never ever really, say, sell them on Ebay. The husband, often referred to as Spousehole, is another story. Oh yeah - if you are under 18 (or if you are my husband), please leave now.

Tuesday, December 4, 2007

TMI Tuesday!

It's TMI Tuesday! Click the "I kiss and tell" icon to come play with us!!


1. If your partner buys you a sexy little "something" is it a present for you or for your partner?

Both!

2. What are 3 characteristics of "your type"?
Intelligent, confident, high libido

3. On a scale of 1-10, how good a cook are you?
8.5. For me, cooking is a sensual experience and I'm all about sensual experiences! My cooking is the one thing Spousehole doesn't complain about. Unfortunately, he has told his mother (more than once, despite being warned to never do it again) that I am a better cook than her. Since she prides herself on her near-gourmet cooking, I could have killed him. It's true, but he needn't have told her.

Dinner tonight: Not gourmet, but yummy comfort food (it's cold here!). Beef stew, made with a splash or two of burgundy & crushed allspice (I roughly crush a few whole berries with my mortar and pestle and toss them in the pot) for a rich flavor. Not sure if I'll use garlic or shallots. I prefer garlic, but sometimes Spousehole prefers shallots for their more delicate flavor. I think the intense flavor of the burgundy requires garlic for balance, but that's just me. Also still deciding whether to make dumplings or let the bread machine make some dough for yeast rolls to serve with the stew. I like dumplings because they fit with the rustic nature of a stew, but my kids prefer yeast rolls.

4. Tattoos: Love them or hate them. On you? On a partner?
On me - no thank you. Just not my thing. On a partner - a few (1-6) are cool, totally covered in them doesn't really work for me.

5. Stubble: Good or bad? How often do you shave?
Below the waist, stubble is mostly bad. I hate feeling itchy. Armpit stubble is also bad. Facial stubble can be kind of sexy ON A GUY. I kind of like that scratchy feeling as he kisses me - reminds me that I'm with a real man.
I shave my armpits every other day, my legs it depends on the season. Summer, at least every other day. Winter, less often - mostly if I think I might get laid ;-) Other areas? Used to be every couple days, but now it's mostly if I think there's a possibility I might get laid. Or if I just feel like it. I prefer waxing, if I can afford it.

Bonus (as in optional):What are a few of your favorite things (both sexual non-sexual)?

Garlic, curry, chocolate, Kahlua, tequila, my children's smiles; oral (giving and receiving), long sexy kisses, cuddling afterwards, pool or hot tub sex, nipple stimulation (gentle at first, then rough). Or just refer to what I said yesterday:
Dominant in relationships - this has been true for many years, but I long for a major switch, in the bedroom, at least sometimes. I want so much to be dominated, to not be in charge sexually. Yes, running things still works for me too, but what gets me really, really wet is the idea of being roughly "taken," controlled, hands tied, "manhandled," pinned to the bed or the bedroom wall or the shower wall, to be with a lover who doesn't ask for what he wants - just takes it, no hesitation, a lover who will dominate me while still focusing on making me enjoy it, not letting me forgo my own pleasure in favor of his (a bad habit of mine). Does that make any sense? Any volunteers?

25 comments:

Hank said...

I'll Volunteer!
like your answers
hope your having a good week!

Evening said...

I had you pegged as a good cook. And I like your list of favorite things. I miss nipple stimulation:(

I have been thinking of you Bunny. Sending you hugs.

SeaRabbit said...

I so agree on your #1 and 5... and should have write your answer to #2... because that's right for me..;-))
Happy Tuesday!

ATLLG said...

Nice Answers...nipple stimulation, domination and a great bowl of stew....the volunteer line starts HERE!

ArtfulSub said...

You're a great poster. Go with the Shallots and the Yeast Rolls. Happy TMI.

Violetta said...

I am always shaved!

Renee said...

Oh my, I must be the worst cook on TMI. I want to come to your house for dinner. I'll leave the grilled hot dogs and steak fries for the H and kids. ;)

Happy TMI!

Slick said...

I still don't understand why women want to be "Bigfoot" during the winter months :p

Loved the answers.....and 8.5 on the cooking scale? Set me a place!!

Loving Annie said...

Mhmmmm 8.5 on the good cook scale ! That is such a wonderful ability and skill to have, Bunny !
Fresh ingredients and home-made things make SUCH a difference...

David said...

Garlic is the perfect spice for cooking. Happy TMI

wisdomstuff said...

Yeah, that last thing you said :-)

Sheen V said...

I'll be your sub!

Zoely said...

interesting...i recall your comment on KS's post about the "iCtrlu" necklace: "could be fun, could be sad..." or something like that.
i think to begin explorations into being a sub may be fun for you, and i think you may need some fun.
i tend to attract men who like my "strength" except that my strength is relative to being a mom, etc., and i really NEED someone to dominate me. i can "do" being the top but eventually that results in my losing respoect for my counterpart.

Vixen said...

Since she prides herself on her near-gourmet cooking, I could have killed him. It's true, but he needn't have told her.

Hahaha....that's awesome.

Rocking answers babe :)

happyTMI!

Bunny said...

Zoely,

I find men also like my strength and I don't want to lose that overall - just sometimes in the bedroom. My husband says he loved my strength, but as he ground me down over the years I lost it (at least at home) and his respect for me dimmed. Ironic, isn't it? But I know what you mean about losing some respect for a partner who doesn't take charge at least once in a while.

SlipOfAGirl said...

Too many tats and they kind of lose their appeal, their power.

Your bonus, esp the being dominated, rings so true. It's like the ying for the yang of my life, handing over control in the bedroom... Must stop talking about that now or I'll be busy with Momma's Toys and never get anything done :p

Happy TMI!

Polt said...

That poor dog...having to live with that guy in the video....I'd bite into his jugular, if I was that dog.

oh, nice answers too, sweetie. :)

HUGS..

SoCal Sal said...

Stew and dumplings. Yummy!!!

ArtfulSub said...

Hey, your least favorite team has a date with the MIGHTY GATORS on January First!

59-28 tis my prediction!

Amorous Rocker said...

Mmm, yummy #3 answer! Great answers all the way around, of course. ;) Happy TMI!

The Bizza said...

Awesome answers. Especially #1 and 2.

Gracie said...

Is it wrong to orgasm reading of your dinner tonight? Damn!

...I'll muscle you around the bedroom if I can have an invite to dinner :p

Happy TMI!

(Here's mine.)

Adam Apple said...

OMG!! I left out nipple stimulation. I can't believe it, and it is one of my biggest turn ons.

Great answers, and anytime you want to be dominated just give Adam a call ;)

Happy TMI

bdenied said...

hmmm KK doughnuts......I like the blueberry ones......

just me said...

i'm late here in posting but i'm glad i stopped by to read your answers. loved 'em! especially your bonus answer and your reference to the day before. i DITTO you on that!! mmmhmmmmm ; )