Is it a sex blog? A mommy blog? A bitch & moan blog? Um, . . . yeah. This is my place to be totally honest. In my real life, I feel like I'm always lying to somebody about something. Here, I am totally honest. Brutally so. However, no matter what bad things I say about my kids, I adore them and would never ever really, say, sell them on Ebay. The husband, often referred to as Spousehole, is another story. Oh yeah - if you are under 18 (or if you are my husband), please leave now.

Friday, September 28, 2007

Some Clarifications

When I said "I ::heart:: PiC today" that does not mean that I've developed feelings, beyond lust, for him. I just meant that I appreciated him in that moment. I'm not going against my own "never get emotionally involved" advice. We are friends, who happen to get naked and have fun. Nothing more. I love my husband. Sometimes inexplicably, but I do.

Although I complained about Spousehole's not answering or even acknowledging simple questions, please note that in the particular situation I related, he was being a really good Dad. He washing barfy/diarrhea Boy while I changed the bedding. He is often a "hands-on" Dad and I appreciate it. He bathes children, he changes diapers, he roughhouses with the kids, and he does things like take the Girl onto the porch during a storm to watch lightning when I really want her out of my hair. He also was totally cool today with my getting out of the house for awhile (Boy is sick STILL, I needed a break). He took care of the kids and didn't complain one whit. Also, he has agreed that this illness of Boy's has been very hard on me and that I deserve a day or so away, on my own, to relax and rejuvenate when this illness is finally over. I know exactly what I want to do, if it can be worked out. We'll see. Anyway, he can be a good and helpful person. Who just doesn't want to have sex. (Sorry - had to throw that out there.)

And, finally, I will not be taking pictures in the periwinkle bra and panties at the same time and posting a full-length shot for HNT. Not going to happen. I like my breasts; I don't mind my bum; but the area in-between is not for the faint of heart. Stretch marks, c-section scars. No, that won't be posted. Ever.

8 comments:

Chelle said...

I posted a full body shot.....ONCE!! I asked for requests for a HNT. I did it, but I was scared to death to do it. I also had on one of my husband's white dress shirts so it covered the "in between" section. I was still nervous. Bloggers were great about it....and boosted my confidence tremendously. Even IF they were lying, I didn't care....lol

George said...

Take your day off and try stretch it to two days ... have a boy be well weekend

Edtime Stories said...

hugggggggggggggggggggggg

Sue said...

I hope whatever you have planned for your time off works out.

And yes, if you love your husband and are only going outside for the sex, feelings must stay out of it. This is certainly not news to you, I'm just seconding that statement.

Loving Annie said...

Good Saturday evening to you, Bunny !

Totally normal to have contradictory feelings about a mate. You love them, you hate them (or the things they do), they drive you nuts, you appreciate them, they hurt yuor feelings, they pull their weight, it's all a combination of good and bad...

Loving Annie

girl under cover said...

I enjoy your blog. I've tagged you over on mine. I hope you'll play along!

The inside of me said...

Lets face it, after a certain age, that mid section is not for everyone to view. Well in my case anyway. I hope some day to get it back in shape enough for a full body shot though.

Vixen said...

Well. You know we would all be very supportive of you doing it...just sayin'.....

And again, I admire you for being able to have what you do with PiC and NOT develop feelings.... I'm not sure I could do it. But hey, sex is good! I'm allll for good sex!