Is it a sex blog? A mommy blog? A bitch & moan blog? Um, . . . yeah. This is my place to be totally honest. In my real life, I feel like I'm always lying to somebody about something. Here, I am totally honest. Brutally so. However, no matter what bad things I say about my kids, I adore them and would never ever really, say, sell them on Ebay. The husband, often referred to as Spousehole, is another story. Oh yeah - if you are under 18 (or if you are my husband), please leave now.

Friday, April 25, 2008

Follow-Up Friday

I hangz on and Frydayz here!!!!
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Remember I told you my son's child psychiatrist was arrested for child sexual abuse? Apparently he has confessed to over 50 first and second degree sexual contacts with a female relative over a 2 year period. At least his confession will likely spare the victim having to testify. That's the only thing he did right, that I am aware of. Idiot. I wonder if he'll even get prison time. A former co-worker of Spousehole was sleeping with his 14-year-old stepdaughter (who he had raised since she was in elementary school and she has his last name, so she was his daughter every way but biologically) and was charged with first degree criminal sexual conduct - a capital offense (Michigan doesn't have the death penalty, so a capital offense means life w/o parole is the maximum potential sentence.) He pled to second-degree and got 5 years probation. No jail time at all. That's just wrong to me.

We are moving to South Carolina. You didn't know it, but that was up in the air again this past week. After accepting the job there without discussing it with me, Spousehole all of a sudden this week starts doubting his decision (can you say "impulsive?"). He starts backtracking and looking at options for staying here, claiming that he likes where things are going with his current job and wants to be a part of it, that he doesn't want to disrupt Boy's schooling, that he doesn't want to move away from our families, he's not confident in his ability to do the new job well, and on and on and on. He woke me up at 5:30 in morning a couple mornings this week to discuss this (at least he talked to me about it and didn't make another unilateral decision). In as supportive a way as possible, I told him that he can't be this indecisive and he made a commitment to his new employer. If he backs out now, he looks like an idiot. Besides, they've already hired someone to replace him here. After much up and down and even talking with another employer about a contract position here, Spousehole has decided to honor his commitment and follow through with the move to South Carolina. I hate this sort of drama. Just make a decision and follow it through. That's called being an adult.

I am still sick. This is ridiculous. My lungs are not functioning well at all right now. You don't want the details, trust me. Suffice it to say that it's unpleasant. I probably haven't made it any easier on myself by spending much of the week cleaning out stuff that got wet in the basement. Have I mentioned that mold is my absolute worst allergy? Well, it is. A lot of what I've tossed in the Trailer Trash trailer is boxes and some clothes and things that got wet after the rains a few weeks ago in our leaky, leaky basement. I'm sure I've exposed myself to a ton of mold. If I die, blame the mold.

I wish I had something fun or funny to share, but this is my life right now. Ugh.

For laughs, try Desperately Seeking . . . Something. These girls (and token guy) crack me up.

15 comments:

Flyinfox_SATX said...

Hey Bunny, Here is hoping that whatever it is that ails you ends as quickly as possible.

Good luck on the move. Stress is going to increase by a factor of 4 so please be calm and have a tremendous amount of patience.

You Rock!

Flyinfox_SATX

Craze said...

If someone is charged with any kind of child sexual abuse there should be MANDATORY jail/prison time. I don't get that at all. Good luck on the moving process, it can be pretty stressful. Get out of that basement until you feel better!

Desmond Jones said...

Many years ago, the father of one of 1F's playmates was sent away for molesting another little playmate. Scary shit; as far as we were able to ascertain (and believe me, we did what we could to find out), he never laid an untoward hand on our daughter, but, holy shit. . .

Good luck on yer move to SC; that seems like scary shit all in its own way. . .

And I hope you're feelin' better soon; I've been draining goo out of my sinuses for a month and a half. . . (downside of living in Michigan, maybe. . .)

Bunny Bunster said...

If you must work more in the basement, at least be a dork and wear a mask/filter.
Hope you feel better soon.

Project Christopher said...

Hang in there. I think, after a while, you'll like SC.

and thanks for the shout out for the "token guy" on desperately seeking... gee... wonder who that is!?!?!

Vixen said...

STILL sick?! Gah.... (((you)))

The other stuff....*shaking head* Sad. And wrong.

Desmond Jones said...

Um, when I took the link to the 'Desperately Seeking' blog, he's the 'Token Gay' not 'Guy'. . .

Not that there's anything wrong with that. . .

;)

Pluff said...

It seems like there is an epidemic of child molestation. A co-worker just found out his ex-wife's step-son is a convicted sex offender. My CW has a 9 year old daughter. He is understandably FA-reaking out!

Hope you feel better!! SC is good for what ails ya!!

Uhave said...

Awww Bunny...I hope things go well for your move. I hope even more you tell Spousehole good luck in his job and that you and the kids are staying put. End things on a good note.

G-Man said...

Moldy Congested Bunny...



...I for one, do not like the idea of you moving from Michigan!!
Hmmmmmmm..... G

ZigZagMan said...

I wish I had something funny to say too lass..........:)

Kitty's Tiger said...

just found you and suffice to say I will be back often and soon. Love the pics and the stories. I truly hope that you get to feeling better and maybe you should lay off cleaning for a bit. After all I just found you don't want to loose you yet...hugs to you and hope to hear from you soon.

D said...

could not agree with you more about the prison sentence. i have a special place in my heart for child predators. and it is a VERY VERY cold place.

wear a mask when you're cleaning. i know it isn't very sexy but then neither is all that green stuff you are hacking up. :)

Val said...

...you meant "FUCKING his stepdaughter" I'm sure, not "sleeping w/her" -- no reason not to call a spade, a spade! [I, too, have an EXTREMELY low tolerance for child abuse.] Hell, I still let my 9-yr old crawl in our bed when he's had a bad dream -- other than my ex raising holy hell about it, no one else has quirked an eyebrow.
But good luck on the move, you've got your work cut out for ya Bunny!

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