Wet Wednesday

Wet Wednesday - play along!

1. I (Lola) was looking at the responses to a question on popsugar.com, where 90% of women had never had a one-night stand. Have you ever had a one-night stand? Did you see that person again?

My first time was a one-night-stand. I saw him around school, but never spoke to him again.

Then there was guy I slept with on a dare. That was one time, though he wanted a repeat performance. I had gotten him out of my system with the one time, so there was no repeat. We talked often over the next three years, if only because we had several classes together every semester.

There were some others, usually friends that I slept with and then regretted because I didn't want to lose the friendship. We talked plenty afterwards, because I chose the friendship over the sexual relationship.

2. What is the strangest or most non-traditional place you've had sex?

Golf course, swimming pool after dark, Lake Michigan with people all around, nothing terribly interesting.

3. is there something non-traditional (spanking, bukkake, bondage, midget porn, foot fetish, etc.) that turns you on? what is it, and have you had anyone freak out on you due to the fact that it turned you on?

I used to be really into restraints, but no one has ever freaked on me because of it. I'm the one who sometimes freaks now. I have to really trust a person to go there now.

I was in a relationship that was based on D/s and denial and it really turned me on in that relationship, but it's not something that I've sought out since.

Now where I have had someone freak on me was on the issue of being watched. I told someone that I really got off on being watched and asked if he would be ok with it and he totally freaked. Said no way, no how. I never told him that we had already been watched several times (I would never be so dishonest now). The being watched thing doesn't really work for me anymore. Guess I'm getting old and boring.

Then there is my bizarro marriage, where my husband thinks of oral (giving or receiving) as non-traditional and freaks out a little when I bring it up. Sigh.