TMI Tuesday!

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1. If your partner buys you a sexy little "something" is it a present for you or for your partner?
Both!

2. What are 3 characteristics of "your type"?
Intelligent, confident, high libido

3. On a scale of 1-10, how good a cook are you?
8.5. For me, cooking is a sensual experience and I'm all about sensual experiences! My cooking is the one thing Spousehole doesn't complain about. Unfortunately, he has told his mother (more than once, despite being warned to never do it again) that I am a better cook than her. Since she prides herself on her near-gourmet cooking, I could have killed him. It's true, but he needn't have told her.

Dinner tonight: Not gourmet, but yummy comfort food (it's cold here!). Beef stew, made with a splash or two of burgundy & crushed allspice (I roughly crush a few whole berries with my mortar and pestle and toss them in the pot) for a rich flavor. Not sure if I'll use garlic or shallots. I prefer garlic, but sometimes Spousehole prefers shallots for their more delicate flavor. I think the intense flavor of the burgundy requires garlic for balance, but that's just me. Also still deciding whether to make dumplings or let the bread machine make some dough for yeast rolls to serve with the stew. I like dumplings because they fit with the rustic nature of a stew, but my kids prefer yeast rolls.

4. Tattoos: Love them or hate them. On you? On a partner?
On me - no thank you. Just not my thing. On a partner - a few (1-6) are cool, totally covered in them doesn't really work for me.

5. Stubble: Good or bad? How often do you shave?
Below the waist, stubble is mostly bad. I hate feeling itchy. Armpit stubble is also bad. Facial stubble can be kind of sexy ON A GUY. I kind of like that scratchy feeling as he kisses me - reminds me that I'm with a real man.
I shave my armpits every other day, my legs it depends on the season. Summer, at least every other day. Winter, less often - mostly if I think I might get laid ;-) Other areas? Used to be every couple days, but now it's mostly if I think there's a possibility I might get laid. Or if I just feel like it. I prefer waxing, if I can afford it.

Bonus (as in optional):What are a few of your favorite things (both sexual non-sexual)?
Garlic, curry, chocolate, Kahlua, tequila, my children's smiles; oral (giving and receiving), long sexy kisses, cuddling afterwards, pool or hot tub sex, nipple stimulation (gentle at first, then rough). Or just refer to what I said yesterday:
Dominant in relationships - this has been true for many years, but I long for a major switch, in the bedroom, at least sometimes. I want so much to be dominated, to not be in charge sexually. Yes, running things still works for me too, but what gets me really, really wet is the idea of being roughly "taken," controlled, hands tied, "manhandled," pinned to the bed or the bedroom wall or the shower wall, to be with a lover who doesn't ask for what he wants - just takes it, no hesitation, a lover who will dominate me while still focusing on making me enjoy it, not letting me forgo my own pleasure in favor of his (a bad habit of mine). Does that make any sense? Any volunteers?