tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2646772639494369714.post7845358866807467501..comments2023-11-02T11:20:48.716-04:00Comments on Down the Rabbit Hole: StandoffBunnyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/12955817346800123054noreply@blogger.comBlogger15125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2646772639494369714.post-58989219134262906642007-07-14T04:38:00.000-04:002007-07-14T04:38:00.000-04:00You know Bunny, Once you get to reading about this...You know Bunny, Once you get to reading about this train wreck, the more you get sucked in. Even though you've got a pic of that very wretched Joe Liberman on your side bar. (Geez, what an ass!). But I've got to say, the anon pastor has a point. (Something I think I've never said in real life). <BR/><BR/>This "His preference for porn and his fawning over teenage girls", is not worries me. That's like almost every other guy you'll meet on the street. It's the out bursts like this one, the uncontrolled anger, rage & resentment. Just a real toxic environment for anything to survive. It's not going to last, but I hope you can make good on whatever is keeping you in place. Cheers & Good Luck, 'VJ'Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2646772639494369714.post-37526941666737459462007-06-28T08:55:00.000-04:002007-06-28T08:55:00.000-04:00Aww, I agree with Bunnynot that I would ever be an...Aww, I agree with Bunny<BR/>not that I would ever be an expert on relationship, <BR/>takes two to make one healthy<BR/>alot of work though<BR/>sigh<BR/>a professional might be the answer<BR/>good luck with this<BR/>and if you learn any good tips<BR/>let us all know<BR/>always could learn something new!!tkkerouachttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04401872245064752187noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2646772639494369714.post-74127898850547192102007-06-26T01:52:00.000-04:002007-06-26T01:52:00.000-04:00Oh buddy. Im so sorry. I know its an extremely com...Oh buddy. Im so sorry. I know its an extremely complicated situation but that does not make it suck any less. I love the wearing a different ring to fiddle with idea. Once he sees you wont play the game with him anymore, don't be surprised if it changes the dynamic completely. Good luck friend.crsehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05938033455038715980noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2646772639494369714.post-65204381356596689322007-06-25T10:45:00.000-04:002007-06-25T10:45:00.000-04:00For this one.......I truly lack words friend.........For this one.......I truly lack words friend.......ZigZagManhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03124688107164515604noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2646772639494369714.post-69895890066781499962007-06-24T18:26:00.000-04:002007-06-24T18:26:00.000-04:00Because I also live with an a "spousehole".....I j...Because I also live with an a "spousehole".....I just have this for you {{{{{{{HUGS}}}}}}}}}}. I am so sorry you have to go through crap like this.Michellehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02907925774829898653noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2646772639494369714.post-18228608099252361762007-06-24T16:04:00.000-04:002007-06-24T16:04:00.000-04:00(found you via hnt)i was going to say just what an...(found you via hnt)<BR/><BR/>i was going to say just what anonymous said.<BR/><BR/>make plans to get out. protect yourself. today he throws the ring at you...what will he throw next?<BR/><BR/>be careful, he is unhappy, insecure and prone to violence. this will only escalate.Heidihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01555381490834134232noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2646772639494369714.post-26178016648964905072007-06-24T14:34:00.000-04:002007-06-24T14:34:00.000-04:00I think you really should consider a different rin...I think you really should consider a different ring. This man doesn't deserve you.Edtime Storieshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15902461803848902688noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2646772639494369714.post-70266563575595391192007-06-24T10:37:00.000-04:002007-06-24T10:37:00.000-04:00Everything anonymous pastor says is excellent advi...Everything anonymous pastor says is excellent advice. Please take it seriously. <BR/><BR/>Based on what you've posted, you are in an abusive relationship. Period. Don't let your children watch you put up with it. <BR/><BR/>Don't put your ring back on. Put on a different ring to fidget with, on a different finger. Hide your diamond so you can sell it after you realize that you should have left this asshole a long time ago.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2646772639494369714.post-70787666304397069202007-06-24T07:25:00.000-04:002007-06-24T07:25:00.000-04:00Ditto everything Anon pastor said. he needs to be ...Ditto everything Anon pastor said. he needs to be called on this childish behavior.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2646772639494369714.post-37226159730282291672007-06-24T01:51:00.000-04:002007-06-24T01:51:00.000-04:00Doesn't sound like a happy situation. Sad to hear...Doesn't sound like a happy situation. Sad to hear it.Mikehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13641318104807962051noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2646772639494369714.post-217638468018833092007-06-23T23:22:00.000-04:002007-06-23T23:22:00.000-04:00spousehole...that sounds like it minght be too muc...spousehole...that sounds like it minght be too much of a compliment.ATLLGhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06827893187112242302noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2646772639494369714.post-32661872904744108982007-06-23T22:12:00.000-04:002007-06-23T22:12:00.000-04:00That brings home a LOT of memories. Within a few y...That brings home a LOT of memories. Within a few years of being married the ex would do the same thing ... well I'll not be married to you any longer, I'll go to the bar in town and pick up any guy I can ... and heave the ring across the room. I would cry and beg for weeks to have her put it back on and eventually she would, probably because she was tired of listening to me. We remained married for way too long (a total of 17 years) and much of it was a sham.<BR/><BR/>Good luck Bunny and keep your eyes open. Don't stay for the sake of your child(ren) ... as they get older they see what is going on no matter how hard you try to hide it, and thay hear as well. They know what's going on and it is not comfortable for them. I left when they were 9 and 12 and my relationship with them, 4 years later, is a lot better than it ever was when we all lived in the same house.Georgehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14369924981153052978noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2646772639494369714.post-51291728426503851692007-06-23T20:37:00.000-04:002007-06-23T20:37:00.000-04:00Whoa... sorry, he sounds like an *sshole!Whoa... sorry, he sounds like an *sshole!ShyRockethttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07956004568564918189noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2646772639494369714.post-16252344072775039542007-06-23T20:09:00.000-04:002007-06-23T20:09:00.000-04:00Screw the stand off Bunny ... you two need to sit ...Screw the stand off Bunny ... you two need to sit down with someone and hash this out. If it means going your seperate ways, so be it.<BR/><BR/>NO ONE DESERVES to be neglected in a relationship. <BR/><BR/>His preference for porn and his fawning over teenage girls, and now this ... counselling my dear - counselling ... <BR/><BR/>If it doesn't work - get a lawyer. <BR/><BR/>He has intimacy AND control issues - that much is clear even from a distance. <BR/><BR/>Ask yourself a simple question - do you want your daughter to end up in an unsatisfying, unrewarding relationship like the one you are in ??? If the answer is NO ... get help and get it now. Start tomorrow by asking your Pastor for an appointment to talk about resources available for your family crisis - invite Spouse-hole to come along ... it puts the onus on him ... <BR/><BR/>Look after you, and run if you have to ... you deserve no less. <BR/><BR/>-anonymous pastorAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2646772639494369714.post-49102785256327717732007-06-23T20:07:00.000-04:002007-06-23T20:07:00.000-04:00be strong good luck.jsbe strong <BR/>good luck.<BR/>jsAnonymousnoreply@blogger.com