tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2646772639494369714.post7739560059450831418..comments2023-11-02T11:20:48.716-04:00Comments on Down the Rabbit Hole: I Give Up; Game OverBunnyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/12955817346800123054noreply@blogger.comBlogger21125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2646772639494369714.post-37465710331876113822007-11-29T15:16:00.000-05:002007-11-29T15:16:00.000-05:00How did I miss this post???....it just showed up i...How did I miss this post???<BR/><BR/>....it just showed up in bloglines. Huh.<BR/><BR/>God. HANG IN THERE chickie. Good for you, regaining some control and power. Who does he think he is!? Grrr.....<BR/><BR/>xoxoxoVixenhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07295575995939125741noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2646772639494369714.post-49859777362652334042007-11-21T00:40:00.000-05:002007-11-21T00:40:00.000-05:00My heart aches, babe. It's NEVER an easy decision ...My heart aches, babe. It's NEVER an easy decision to split no matter the reason. I do like the fact that you finally took control of the computer. I'm sure that'll send him through the roof, but enough IS enough already. I like what George said, too. That's probably sane thinking as computers go anyway. <BR/><BR/>NEVER forget that you are a valuable, lovable, intelligent woman and a great mom. No matter what anyone else says. <BR/><BR/>I've been there... I've been where ladyinred's been, too. It sucks, but it's for the best. I'm here if you need someone to talk to, need to hear it'll get better, just need a phone hug!!Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2646772639494369714.post-37085648291212126362007-11-19T22:22:00.000-05:002007-11-19T22:22:00.000-05:00I feel like I'm walking in on an argument and feel...I feel like I'm walking in on an argument and feel rather awkward. Maybe I should just walk out and close the door behind me.Bluehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09885703166674906033noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2646772639494369714.post-15318390750835385882007-11-19T13:37:00.000-05:002007-11-19T13:37:00.000-05:00Another de-lurker here . . . I've only been readin...Another de-lurker here . . . I've only been reading your blog a little while, but I've looked through the archives and wish you luck as you move on. I don't know how you've dealt with his childishness this long! Don't let anyone talk you out of moving forward. *g* Take my word for it, second marriages are worth waiting for!Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2646772639494369714.post-85616250907956054822007-11-18T12:54:00.000-05:002007-11-18T12:54:00.000-05:00bunny, good luck. this won't be easy, but as someo...bunny, good luck. this won't be easy, but as someone else already said, it seems inevitable.<BR/><BR/>and you'll be amazed at how much better life will be on the other side of all the pain and ugliness.terryhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02758974079951716931noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2646772639494369714.post-89129132556035598152007-11-18T12:24:00.000-05:002007-11-18T12:24:00.000-05:00I'm on your side. I agree with l.i.r. - keep safe....I'm on your side. I agree with l.i.r. - keep safe. It might not be a bad idea to have an 'escape plan' in place should the need arise. Good for you and good luck!Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2646772639494369714.post-4617890207100802432007-11-18T08:18:00.000-05:002007-11-18T08:18:00.000-05:00*hugs**hugs*dbhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04510950661060996731noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2646772639494369714.post-59440334185005498922007-11-18T06:06:00.000-05:002007-11-18T06:06:00.000-05:00Bunny I am kind of pleased for you but also worrie...Bunny I am kind of pleased for you but also worried. From now until it is over you will have to be stronger than ever before.<BR/>If he behaves anything like SF did then he is going to make your life hell while you are both in the same house. I assume you will either move yourself or him into another bedroom. Put a strong lock on your door and keep a diary of everything he does and says to you.<BR/><BR/>I would be happy for you to email me if you would like to.(ladyinred62@hotmail.co.uk) I had to live in the same house with SF for 7 months. He was fine with the children but a bastard to me every time he saw me. I have been thinking about doing a post about my experience of divorcing my husband, I will probably do this once I have finished 'owning my cancer'.<BR/><BR/>all the hugs in the world to youLady in redhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02835625473505921821noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2646772639494369714.post-34356511951992433162007-11-18T00:18:00.000-05:002007-11-18T00:18:00.000-05:00I am sorry that it has had to end this way, but so...I am sorry that it has had to end this way, but sometimes it is best. My thoughts are with you. This has inspired a blog that I am about to write. I will not link this until I get your go ahead.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2646772639494369714.post-48296877294400203752007-11-18T00:12:00.000-05:002007-11-18T00:12:00.000-05:00I hope everything goes well for all of you. {{hug...I hope everything goes well for all of you. {{hugs}}Trueselfhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04376379968984585345noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2646772639494369714.post-71301249296139112592007-11-17T22:43:00.000-05:002007-11-17T22:43:00.000-05:00Bunny, I haven't known you long, and only online a...Bunny, I haven't known you long, and only online at that. But this seems like a very sane, very smart, thing to have decided. <BR/><BR/>You know a good lawyer, yes?sandy shoeshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05617376664356510015noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2646772639494369714.post-65362061821112474792007-11-17T21:50:00.000-05:002007-11-17T21:50:00.000-05:00Thinking of you... Yes, it will be hard... but do ...Thinking of you... Yes, it will be hard... but do you have another choice?<BR/>Good luck!Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2646772639494369714.post-61047060845117878792007-11-17T21:27:00.000-05:002007-11-17T21:27:00.000-05:00*HUG* Good for you honey.*HUG* Good for you honey.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2646772639494369714.post-2062863025833293592007-11-17T19:31:00.000-05:002007-11-17T19:31:00.000-05:00B, I feel like you're headed in the right directio...B, I feel like you're headed in the right direction. This won't be easy, but you're a smart, tough lady and you can do this. You deserve a happy life. Always remember that.<BR/><BR/>(((HUGS)))Reneehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14522059888629581232noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2646772639494369714.post-3710783686469522892007-11-17T19:27:00.000-05:002007-11-17T19:27:00.000-05:00I hope the you can make the transition without too...I hope the you can make the transition without too much pain and fighting. <BR/><BR/>hugEdtime Storieshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15902461803848902688noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2646772639494369714.post-84600384408825230012007-11-17T18:53:00.000-05:002007-11-17T18:53:00.000-05:00Better an end with a crash, than a crash without e...Better an end with a crash, than a crash without end...Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2646772639494369714.post-491449349158678732007-11-17T18:30:00.000-05:002007-11-17T18:30:00.000-05:00'Tis a difficult decision to be sure. But from wh...'Tis a difficult decision to be sure. But from what you've said here it seems this was inevitable.<BR/><BR/>The good thing for you is you have marketable skills. How much harder your situation would become if you were one of those women who married right out of high school and devoted your life to hubby.<BR/><BR/>Best of luck.<BR/><BR/>TAGTAGhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06235937547319244705noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2646772639494369714.post-72863406080572226882007-11-17T17:50:00.000-05:002007-11-17T17:50:00.000-05:00Another de-lurk.Hugs. Just *hugs*.EAnother de-lurk.<BR/><BR/>Hugs. Just *hugs*.<BR/><BR/>EElizabethhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07754345944779289345noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2646772639494369714.post-21525296277237101892007-11-17T17:32:00.000-05:002007-11-17T17:32:00.000-05:00What a fucking surprise. Are you sure you're OK? I...What a fucking surprise. Are you sure you're OK? It's probably the best move you have ever made.<BR/><BR/>You should partition the hard drive ... keep the OS on 1 partition and all your data, pics, mp3, movies, whatever on the other partition. That way, if you have to reinstall again you'll not lose the stuff on the 2nd partition.<BR/><BR/>[[[[[HUGS]]]]]Georgehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14369924981153052978noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2646772639494369714.post-70042375550337800902007-11-17T17:26:00.000-05:002007-11-17T17:26:00.000-05:00De-lurking to say good luck. And make sure you get...De-lurking to say good luck. And make sure you get to keep the knives. ;)Jenhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14182930303545312702noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2646772639494369714.post-17299122689790742592007-11-17T17:21:00.000-05:002007-11-17T17:21:00.000-05:00*hugs**hugs*The Creeperhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11501280478538293726noreply@blogger.com