tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2646772639494369714.post2613851697599722399..comments2023-11-02T11:20:48.716-04:00Comments on Down the Rabbit Hole: Oh Good Lord . . .Bunnyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/12955817346800123054noreply@blogger.comBlogger10125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2646772639494369714.post-43380867909657911322007-07-30T02:29:00.000-04:002007-07-30T02:29:00.000-04:00I've only just discovered your blog and have now s...I've only just discovered your blog and have now spent....I don't even know how long reading here. You are a pleasure! I can't wait to come back and read more! <BR/><BR/>You are a calmer woman than I...I don't think I could have handled the leaving you behind incident as graciously as you apparently have. Of course, my husband informed me 3 months ago that we were never a-c-t-u-a-l-l-y married so really, I guess I don't have much room to talk.HyperAnthttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01226668859852527602noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2646772639494369714.post-54301554464616466922007-07-27T20:07:00.000-04:002007-07-27T20:07:00.000-04:00Ah,my mom is the same way. I tell her something an...Ah,my mom is the same way. I tell her something and she blabs to my dad now that they're back on good terms as well. She also blabs to her sisters and and my grandparents about it so it ends up with everyone in on whatever it was. Sigh. I hardly ever vent to her or tell her much for that reason. A venting session turns in to drama or everyone in my business and I hate that, lol.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2646772639494369714.post-4978909813023804932007-07-27T19:29:00.000-04:002007-07-27T19:29:00.000-04:00I think you really do have a mess. BTW I am alway...I think you really do have a mess. BTW I am always able to listenEdtime Storieshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15902461803848902688noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2646772639494369714.post-42632888853461794922007-07-27T11:30:00.000-04:002007-07-27T11:30:00.000-04:00OyVey...messy, messy LOLBTW...I like SpouseHole, v...OyVey...messy, messy LOL<BR/><BR/>BTW...I like SpouseHole, very funny!Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2646772639494369714.post-41314159559099282712007-07-27T11:02:00.000-04:002007-07-27T11:02:00.000-04:00You deserve betterYou deserve betterAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2646772639494369714.post-79248999766194459622007-07-27T10:40:00.000-04:002007-07-27T10:40:00.000-04:00It's great to know you have the support of your fa...It's great to know you have the support of your family. But I also know what you mean about wanting them to back off.<BR/><BR/>I'm worried that Spousehole will turn the tables trying to justify his actions when he does talk to his family, so that you end up looking like the ass.<BR/><BR/>*hugs* lots of them.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2646772639494369714.post-66138889201023515052007-07-27T10:24:00.000-04:002007-07-27T10:24:00.000-04:00UGH.**UGH**I'm so freaking pissed off FOR you. An...UGH.<BR/><BR/>**UGH**<BR/><BR/>I'm so freaking pissed off FOR you. And you know what, that is SO something AH would have done to me.<BR/><BR/>(((you)))Vixenhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07295575995939125741noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2646772639494369714.post-43652112506136483732007-07-27T03:58:00.000-04:002007-07-27T03:58:00.000-04:00Oh sunshine. Im soooo sorry. I just read the whole...Oh sunshine. Im soooo sorry. I just read the whole story. What a FUCKING ASSHOLE. Kudos to your dad for both wanting to kill him and not doing it. Im sorry but Im GLAD they called the in-laws. Jackass. If you need to vent more, you know where to find me buddy.crsehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05938033455038715980noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2646772639494369714.post-39520858939246331442007-07-27T00:41:00.000-04:002007-07-27T00:41:00.000-04:00I was 18 1/2. I picked someone around my age. I ...I was 18 1/2. I picked someone around my age. I should have gone for an older guy who knew what he was doing. It would have been less painful.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2646772639494369714.post-75347591733366280532007-07-26T23:49:00.000-04:002007-07-26T23:49:00.000-04:00The good news is that you have people you care abo...The good news is that you have people you care about who will help you do whatever it takes to deal with Spousehole. I'm a little surprised that FIL would stand behind you like that, but that's a good thing, too. At least until Spousehole convinces him otherwise. <BR/><BR/>However, having all of these extra people in between you and Spousehole isn't good, either. When I was with X2, there was all kinds of interference from all directions. After I moved out, by the grace of God, I found a counselor who helped me get untangled from all of those people so I could make intelligent decisions about my life and my future. She was affiliated with this group. <A HREF="http://www.thebowencenter.org/pages/theory.html" REL="nofollow">Bowen Center</A> I learned a lot from her. She helped me understand why I stayed 7 years in a miserable, defeating relationship not too unlike yours. <BR/><BR/>I love you like a sister and I don't even know you. If you need someone to vent to, a shoulder to cry on, or to help you plan your escape - write or call me...Anonymousnoreply@blogger.com